Minu läpakas on üks põnev kaust kus omakorda sees kaust nimega "Dreamy". Ja seal ei ilutse Henry Cavill või Jeremy Renner vaid hoopis viimase aastaga kogutud ideed - piltide näol. (Ma ei saa neid siia muidugi üles panna, cause you're gonna steal them, mates.) Aga seal on inspiratsiooni minu stiilis aiast (ma vihkan lillepeenraid ja maniküüritud golfimuru), mõtted oma tulevikuprojektist - saunast kuni kasvõi ühe raamaturiiulini välja.
2 aastat tagasi ei vaevunud ma neid pilte, mis mulle inspiratsiooni andsid, isegi salvestama. Peas oli mõte: "ma ei tee neid ikka/ ma ei oskaks alustada/ see ei õnnestuks ikka/ mind veetaks alt" jne jne. Olin ahmanud liialt suuri tükke ideedest, mis ei saanudki täide minna kuna kiirustasin ja nõudsin kõike KOHE. Ja peale mitut ebaõnnestmist olidki peas põhjenused, miks üldse mitte vaevuda. Tegelikult olin ma vales kohas, vales ajas ja väga vales state of mind'is.
Nüüd on uus aeg ja uus suund ja kaustast on juba 1 idee elus ja mu toas ilutsemas. Ja see üks õnnestumine andis nii palju juurde, mis on kummaline, kuna selle idee teostas keegi teine. Aga ma ei kavatsegi tõmblema hakata ja uut projekti ette võtta ennem kui ma endale selleks n.ö kaardid ise kätte ei mängi (mulle ei meeldi mõte, et keegi Saatus mulle neid jagab,in my house I deal the deck )
Stumble!'t ühel vaiksel momendil klikates sattusin Dalai Lama n.ö elureeglitele. “Dalai Lama’s 18 Rules for Living”. Nii. ärge nüüd paanitsege!! See ei ole Muhu Kämpi mõjutus ja ma ei tule teile flaiereid jagama. Ma ei ole ausalt kunagi Dalai Lamale suurt tähelepani pööranud (my loss, i'm sure). Muidugi ma tean mis on tema n.ö missioon ja kes ta on jne jne. Aga tema filosoofiasse ma ei ole süvitsi süvenenud. Aga asja juurde. Need soovitused olid nii kuradima loogilised ja midagi mis tõesti aitaks vahel sellest ülemõtlemisest, ületarbimisest ja võidujooksust aja maha võtta. Lugege ja mõtisklege, ja võtke neid enda mätta otsast. Minu jaoks on see lihtsalt nõuannete nimekiri mida kasutada et olla õnnelik, ilma et sa peaksid määratlema oma usundi, oma jumalused või uskumused. Midagi, mis lihtsalt paneb su hetkeks sisse ja välja hingama ja veidi oma loodetavasti veidi oma moraalset kompassi taatlema.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. This is the rule that you have the least amount of control over. Your family dynamic will ultimately determine your home atmosphere, but you can definitely help it along by showing your family that you love them. As in rule #3, if you respect (love) your family, they will provide you with respect and love in return. This rule comes to play again when starting a family. Inject love into your home. Make the walls glisten with endearment. That will set a solid foundation for the lives of your children.
14. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. One learns so much just from living a lifetime. Share that knowledge with the people you come across, it can only help them in their journeys. Even more important, share your failures so that others will not repeat them.
15. Be gentle with the earth.The earth is where we live. So this should be obvious. Hurting the earth is hurting yourself and the futures of your children and loved ones.
16. Once a year As often as possible, go someplace you’ve never been before. Experience new places and new things. You might find yourself with someone or somewhere that makes you much happier than your previous circumstance. The Earth is so vast with unique and beautiful places, why wouldn’t you want to go explore them?
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. The opposite is a sign that the relationship should end. If you need someone more than you love them, it is a sign of dependency, not affection. Find someone where love is the dominant force and you will find yourself in a much more fulfilling relationship.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. Success is not truly success if you had to compromise yourself or your loved ones in order to achieve it. Decide what you want. Design your ideal life and go for it. Do not let any part of that dream slip away in order to get the rest of you will live in regret.
2 aastat tagasi ei vaevunud ma neid pilte, mis mulle inspiratsiooni andsid, isegi salvestama. Peas oli mõte: "ma ei tee neid ikka/ ma ei oskaks alustada/ see ei õnnestuks ikka/ mind veetaks alt" jne jne. Olin ahmanud liialt suuri tükke ideedest, mis ei saanudki täide minna kuna kiirustasin ja nõudsin kõike KOHE. Ja peale mitut ebaõnnestmist olidki peas põhjenused, miks üldse mitte vaevuda. Tegelikult olin ma vales kohas, vales ajas ja väga vales state of mind'is.
Nüüd on uus aeg ja uus suund ja kaustast on juba 1 idee elus ja mu toas ilutsemas. Ja see üks õnnestumine andis nii palju juurde, mis on kummaline, kuna selle idee teostas keegi teine. Aga ma ei kavatsegi tõmblema hakata ja uut projekti ette võtta ennem kui ma endale selleks n.ö kaardid ise kätte ei mängi (mulle ei meeldi mõte, et keegi Saatus mulle neid jagab,in my house I deal the deck )
Stumble!'t ühel vaiksel momendil klikates sattusin Dalai Lama n.ö elureeglitele. “Dalai Lama’s 18 Rules for Living”. Nii. ärge nüüd paanitsege!! See ei ole Muhu Kämpi mõjutus ja ma ei tule teile flaiereid jagama. Ma ei ole ausalt kunagi Dalai Lamale suurt tähelepani pööranud (my loss, i'm sure). Muidugi ma tean mis on tema n.ö missioon ja kes ta on jne jne. Aga tema filosoofiasse ma ei ole süvitsi süvenenud. Aga asja juurde. Need soovitused olid nii kuradima loogilised ja midagi mis tõesti aitaks vahel sellest ülemõtlemisest, ületarbimisest ja võidujooksust aja maha võtta. Lugege ja mõtisklege, ja võtke neid enda mätta otsast. Minu jaoks on see lihtsalt nõuannete nimekiri mida kasutada et olla õnnelik, ilma et sa peaksid määratlema oma usundi, oma jumalused või uskumused. Midagi, mis lihtsalt paneb su hetkeks sisse ja välja hingama ja veidi oma loodetavasti veidi oma moraalset kompassi taatlema.
1. Take into account that great love and great achievements involve great risk. Risk
is involved in every great opportunity in life. It it isn’t risky, then
everyone would be doing, thus making it ordinary and not “great.”
Separate yourself from the crowd as one who not only can take risks, but
enjoys doing so. Certainty in life can only be so comforting until it
gets boring.
2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. If you lose what you have learned not to do, you will be doomed to repeat it. More importantly, however, do fear failure. Failure is the precursor to success. Hardly any great thing that you wish to accomplish will come without failure. This ties back to the rule of risk mentioned above.
3. Follow the three Rs:
2. When you lose, don’t lose the lesson. If you lose what you have learned not to do, you will be doomed to repeat it. More importantly, however, do fear failure. Failure is the precursor to success. Hardly any great thing that you wish to accomplish will come without failure. This ties back to the rule of risk mentioned above.
3. Follow the three Rs:
- Respect for self – Confidence is key in success and one who does you respect himself does not believe in himself. Thus, if you do not respect yourself, you cannot possibly succeed in anything great, nor can you respect others.
- Respect for others – And
you will be respected in return. Anyone who does not return that
respect is immediately letting you know that they are not worth your
time, and that they do not respect themselves. Avoid
weak/insecure/self-loathing people.
- Responsibility for all your actions – You
alone are responsible for your feelings, actions, success, etc. You are
in complete control of your life, so do not try and blame other people
for your mistakes or misfortunes.
5. Learn the rules so you know how to break them properly. Rules
are meant to be broken. Most of them are put in place by archaic,
corrupt institutions that seek only to enslave and maintain their own
power. When it comes to breaking them, be sure to do it properly to
avoid punishment. But above all things, make sure you DO in fact break
rules. If authority was never questioned, we could be a stagnant civilization.
6. Don’t let a little dispute injure a great friendship. Obviously
friendship is more important that one small fight, but very few people
actually put this rule into practice. They also need to be able to
follow rule #7 in order to truly follow #6.
7. When you realize you’ve made a mistake, take immediate steps to correct it. And
do not let your pride get in the way of taking those steps. Apologize,
taking full responsibility. That will speak for your character more
strongly than the action of making the mistake in the first place.
8. Spend some time alone every day. No
matter what you do, take at least 30 minutes out of your day to spend
alone in a quiet place. This will give you at least a half-hour to
examine what is going on in your life, to examine yourself and to figure
out what you want. Whether it be through prayer, meditation, yoga or
golf, this ritual is a must. The Law of Attraction is the best way to
spend this time.
9. Open your arms to change, but don’t let go of your values. This
world is constantly changing. If you are not open to change, then you
are going to live a very miserable life. You, yourself, are going to
change as well, but that does not mean that your values have to change
as well. Welcome new places, new faces and new loves, but never change
those core parts of you unless you have strong reasons to believe you
were wrong to believe them in the first place.
10. Remember that silence is sometimes the best answer. Silence
leads to relaxed contemplation during which emotions have less
influence and logic can take over. For example, in an argument with a
friend, remaining silent instead of retaliating with something
anger-driven is more efficient in ending the argument faster and with
less hurt for both parties. Or consider Gandhi, who took down the
British Empire through silent, pacifistic behavior. Silence is a
powerful tool that few choose to use over irrational action. Consider it
next time you find yourself in a difficult situation.
11. Live a good, honourable life. Then when you get older and think back, you’ll be able to enjoy it a second time. You
are going to have to live with your actions for the rest of your life,
so save yourself the regret and anguish and live with honor now. Good
things also come to good people. You will never be punished for acting
with integrity, only rewarded.
12. A loving atmosphere in your home is the foundation for your life. This is the rule that you have the least amount of control over. Your family dynamic will ultimately determine your home atmosphere, but you can definitely help it along by showing your family that you love them. As in rule #3, if you respect (love) your family, they will provide you with respect and love in return. This rule comes to play again when starting a family. Inject love into your home. Make the walls glisten with endearment. That will set a solid foundation for the lives of your children.
13. In disagreements with loved ones, deal only with the current situation. Don’t bring up the past. The
past is constant, unchanging. Bringing it up can only bring more pain
to the current situation. This is a problem especially with loved ones
because relationships with them go so far back into the past and are so
fueled by emotion. Forgive any past actions and focus on the present.
14. Share your knowledge. It’s a way to achieve immortality. One learns so much just from living a lifetime. Share that knowledge with the people you come across, it can only help them in their journeys. Even more important, share your failures so that others will not repeat them.
15. Be gentle with the earth.The earth is where we live. So this should be obvious. Hurting the earth is hurting yourself and the futures of your children and loved ones.
16. Once a year As often as possible, go someplace you’ve never been before. Experience new places and new things. You might find yourself with someone or somewhere that makes you much happier than your previous circumstance. The Earth is so vast with unique and beautiful places, why wouldn’t you want to go explore them?
17. Remember that the best relationship is one in which your love for each other exceeds your need for each other. The opposite is a sign that the relationship should end. If you need someone more than you love them, it is a sign of dependency, not affection. Find someone where love is the dominant force and you will find yourself in a much more fulfilling relationship.
18. Judge your success by what you had to give up in order to get it. Success is not truly success if you had to compromise yourself or your loved ones in order to achieve it. Decide what you want. Design your ideal life and go for it. Do not let any part of that dream slip away in order to get the rest of you will live in regret.
